Very early in life, I came to terms with the fact that life is a circle. And everything that happens to us, has a circular pattern as well.
Let’s begin with the life itself: you take birth, you live, you reproduce (give birth to others), you die and (if you believe in rebirth) you’re reborn. A perfect circular pattern.
Whatever you sow, so shall you reap. Taking an example of papaya here. If you plant it’s seeds into the earth, it’ll make a plant and eventually a tree. This tree will give you fruits which has seeds and this circle continues.
If you believe in karma: whatever you’re doing is making its way to you. What we’re doing today has either made its way from our pasts to us or making way for the future course. If I’m good to my fellow beings, this goodness is going to travel the world and would come back to me. If we’re hurting someone or cheating upon someone, while you’re paying back the person for his misdoing and at the same time, you’re making way for yours.
When we meet someone in our life and connect instantly,there was a circle with them which was pending to be completed. And when people leave our life because of death or another manner, it’s because their circle is completed with us. Dont hold onto people,you’re getting onto another loop.
When someone betrays us, try to accept their circle with us has completed. If you keep cribbing about it, you’re not letting this circle get completed while there are more circles hanging around.
Such simple is life- people enter our lives to complete both their and our circles with them. And they leave once those circles are completed. And we, as humans, find it difficult to believe that detachment was a process of this living. Life has to go a complete way and we need to hop on to another circle to keep it going. Remember those circus days from childhood:you’re up in the air and the only way to come down is to complete/ come out of the loops that you are entangled in.
Keep it simple because it’s one life. Complexity makes it difficult.
Attempting to simplify,